Just discovered this today.  I can deal with Obnoxious Caveward....Bella on the other hand...
I understand you won't change him & I applaud you for that but she is willingly in this effed up relationship and allows him to treat her as such... That's messed up.  
After this little tidbit of what he did, how he's reacting to her being upset & al that, she's a freaking idiot to come back to him.  She needs to teach him a lesson. He's disrespecting her in the biggest way there is. How can you say you love someone & then disrespect them to that extent. 

It's one thing to deal w/his possesiveness & find it hot--but there is a point where it's not healthy and he's sooooo crossed it.

Regardless, I'll continue to read until Bella makes me want to bash my brains in.... =)